Dating in the modern era can be an exhilarating adventure — It’s a blend of art and strategy, where first impressions can mean everything.
My journey through the single scene has taught me that preparation is key. You need the right tools.
Here are the things every single guy needs when dating:
Every single guy who is dating needs a high-quality razor, tailored suit, classic watch, reliable smartphone, dental hygiene kit, running shoes, beard trimmer, fitted jeans, portable charger, and decent cologne. Single guys also need face moisturizer, lip balm, and a good camera for dating profile pictures.
In this guide, you’ll learn all 30 of the most important things you need for dating as a single guy.
Top 10 Essentials for the Single Guy’s Dating Toolkit
First, here’s a streamlined table of the top 10 essentials every single guy should have in his dating toolkit.
These are the non-negotiables that can make or break your dating game:
| Essential Categories | Recommended Items |
|---|---|
| Razor | Gillette Fusion5 |
| Tailored Suit | MAGE Male Men’s 3 Piece Suit |
| Classic Watch | Michael Kors Slim Runway watch |
| Reliable Smartphone | Google Pixel |
| Dental Hygiene Kit | Crest 3D Whitestrips |
| Quality Shoes | Rockport Boots |
| Beard Trimmer | Andis 74150 GTX-EXO |
| Fitness Equipment | Marcy Pro Smith Cage Workout Machine |
| Smart Watch | Apple Watch |
| Hygiene – Cologne | Azzaro The Most Wanted |
From grooming essentials to tech gadgets, every single item I’ve adopted into my life has been a step toward becoming a more appealing and prepared date.
I’ve compiled a list of 30 must-have items for every single guy ready to explore the dating world.
Grooming Kit
In the quest for companionship, grooming is your silent ally.
It speaks volumes about your personal hygiene and attention to detail before you even utter a word. A well-crafted grooming kit is indispensable.
1. High-Quality Razor
Your grooming kit begins with a high-quality razor.
It’s about the confidence of a clean shave and the subtle message it sends about self-respect.
I recall my skin reacting poorly to a low-quality razor until I invested in a better one, transforming my skin and my confidence.
Choose one that suits your skin type and beard texture, and ensure it’s maintained well to provide the smoothest shave for that all-important date.
A razor I like is the Gillette Fusion5.
2. Beard Trimmer
For those sporting facial hair, a beard trimmer is a crucial grooming tool.
It’s about precision and maintaining that perfect stubble or well-groomed beard that says you’re in charge of your appearance.
I learned through trial and error that a trimmer with various guard sizes is vital for achieving the desired length and shape.
My current favorite beard trimmer is the Andis 74150 GTX-EXO.
3. Exfoliating Face Scrub
A face scrub is vital for a fresh, smooth complexion, as it sloughs off dead skin cells and prevents ingrown hairs from shaving.
My skin looked visibly brighter and felt incredibly smooth after making exfoliation a regular part of my routine.
Trust me, your efforts won’t go unnoticed on dates.
A good face scrub is Paulas Choice.
4. Moisturizer with SPF
Hydrated skin is healthy skin, and an SPF moisturizer protects against sun damage, preventing premature aging.
I found that it’s not just about the immediate benefits but also about long-term skin health, which is a great topic of conversation showing foresight and self-care.
I use a face cream every night and morning.
One I highly recommend is the Murad Essential-C Facial Moisturizer.
5. Dental Hygiene Kit
A bright smile is your best accessory, and a dental hygiene kit with a quality toothbrush, floss, and mouthwash ensures fresh breath and a dazzling smile.
I’ve found that taking a moment to freshen up before a date can make all the difference in making a great first impression.
You can also whiten your teeth with Crest 3D Whitestrips.
Wardrobe Essentials
Your attire is a visual handshake, an opportunity to express your personality and taste.
Having wardrobe staples ready is key to presenting yourself with style and intention.
6. Tailored Suit
A tailored suit is an investment that pays dividends in the dating world.
It accentuates your physique and exudes sophistication. After I had my first suit tailored, the confidence boost was unmistakable.
Whether for a formal event or a fancy dinner, it’s a must-have.
A budget-friendly (and popular) option is the MAGE Male Men’s 3 Piece Suit.
7. Fitted Jeans
Fitted jeans are the Swiss Army knife of your wardrobe — adaptable and stylish.
They should hug your form without restricting movement. I found a dark wash to be most versatile, easily dressed up or down to suit the occasion.
Pair it with a clean t-shirt, polo, or button-down.
You can find good fitted jeans at Express, Amazon, Kohls, and more.
8. Crisp White Shirt
A crisp white shirt is the quintessential companion to jeans or a suit.
It’s the blank canvas that allows your personality to shine. I noticed that its simplicity often attracts compliments and lends a neat, put-together image.
It’s important to think about your entire outfit when dating.
9. Stylish Shoes
Comfortable yet stylish shoes can bridge the gap between casual and too casual.
They can add a pop of personality to an outfit without sacrificing comfort. I always opt for a pair that’s clean and complements the rest of my attire.
You might like the Rockport boots.
10. Leather Belt
A sleek leather belt ties an outfit together.
It’s not just functional but also a subtle detail that shows you pay attention to the little things. I learned that a well-chosen belt could lend a touch of class to even the simplest outfits.
Check out the Groove Life Belt.
Accessories
Accessories are the nuances of your outfit, the fine print that reveals more about you.
They should be chosen with care to complement your ensemble and overall style.
11. Classic Watch
A classic watch conveys respect for time and an appreciation for craftsmanship.
It was a game-changer for me, often serving as a piece that would catch a date’s eye. Choose one that reflects your lifestyle and serves as a personal statement.
I love the Michael Kors Slim Runway watch.
12. Leather Wallet
A leather wallet is both a practical and a style statement.
It shows that you’re organized and take care of your possessions. When I upgraded to a sleek, high-quality wallet, it felt like a step up in the world of adulting.
In fact, I recently bought a new one that I’m ga-ga over.
You might also like the TRAVANDO Mens Slim Wallet.
13. Sunglasses
The right pair of sunglasses can add an air of mystery and protect your eyes with style.
They should fit your face shape and complement your style. I’ve found that they can be quite the conversation starter, too.
Get you pair of cheap ones.
But also something that is stylish and sets you apart in the dating scene.
You really can’t go wrong with Ray Bans.
14. Scented Deodorant
A scented deodorant is a subtle layer of your grooming that can boost confidence.
It’s the reinforcement to your cologne, ensuring you stay fresh throughout the day. I prefer a scent that’s understated yet long-lasting.
Bonus if it’s aluminum-free and made without harmful chemicals.
A lot of guys like Tom’s of Maine deodorant.
15. Signature Cologne
A signature cologne is the invisible part of your style that can leave a memorable impression
It should blend with your body chemistry and be subtle yet distinctive.
I’ve discovered that finding the right fragrance can take time, but once you do, it becomes an integral part of your identity.
After a trip to Brazil in college, I started wearing cologne nearly every day. I still do.
Here are some really good colognes:
Tech Gadgets
In our connected world, tech gadgets can streamline the dating process, from planning to communication, enhancing your dating game with efficiency and flair.
16. Reliable Smartphone
Your smartphone is the linchpin of your dating toolkit.
It’s a multifunctional device that keeps you connected. Upgrading my phone significantly improved my dating life, making planning and staying in touch effortless.
Ensure it has a good camera for those candid moments and a reliable battery life for day-long connectivity.
You’ll need a phone like the Google Pixel (my favorite and the one I use right now) for those dating apps, texting, and more.
17. Portable Charger
A portable charger ensures that your phone is always ready when you are.
There’s nothing worse than having your phone die in the middle of making plans or capturing a memorable moment.
I’ve learned to carry one, especially on longer dates or trips, to avoid any connectivity issues.
Find one that fits your phone. I like the Ayeway Battery Pack.
18. Smartwatch
A smartwatch keeps you discreetly connected without the need to constantly check your phone.
It’s especially useful for managing notifications and calls when it would be impolite to have your phone out. The convenience it added to your life makes it an indispensable gadget.
There are a ton of options but the Apple Watch is one of the best.
19. Wireless Earbuds
Wireless earbuds are essential for personal entertainment and phone calls on the go.
They’re perfect for those moments when you need to take a call or listen to music without being tethered to your device.
I found they’re also a great way to share a favorite song or podcast with a date.
Get these: Echo Buds.
20. Quality Camera
While most smartphones come equipped with decent cameras, a quality standalone camera can take your photography game to the next level.
It’s great for capturing special moments in higher quality, which I found can be a fun activity to bond over on a date.
Plus, diving into a hobby or passion like photography makes you a more interesting person.
If you’re going to get a camera, you might as well splurge on the Sony Alpha.
Hygiene Products
Hygiene is fundamental in dating, impacting not just self-presentation but also comfort and health.
The right products can make all the difference.
21. Antibacterial Wipes
Antibacterial wipes are a quick fix for cleaning your hands and freshening up when you’re on the move.
They’ve saved me on numerous occasions from sticky situations, both literally and figuratively.
Also get some wipes for the bathroom (enough said).
22. Lip Balm
Chapped lips are a no-go, and a good lip balm keeps your lips soft and kiss-ready.
It’s a small detail that I’ve found can have a big impact on comfort and confidence.
This is a game-changer so don’t go for the cheapest option here. Try the Burt’s Bees brand. I think you’ll love them.
23. Hand Sanitizer
Hand sanitizer is a must in the modern dating landscape.
It shows that you are health-conscious and considerate, which has become even more important in recent times. I try keep a small bottle with me, especially when dining out.
You look prepared because you are prepared and that is attractive.
24. Breath Mints
Breath mints or gum can be a lifesaver, ensuring your breath is fresh at all times.
They’ve been my discreet go-to before any close encounters or after meals.
Like the lip balm and hand sanitizer, you just need to make a habit of buying them and keeping them with you on dates.
25. Hair Styling Product
The right hair styling product can help you achieve the perfect look and make a great impression.
Whether it’s pomade, wax, or gel, finding the one that works best for your hair type and style is key. I’ve noticed that, for most men, a well-coiffed hairstyle often draws compliments and adds an extra boost of swagger.
If you’re bald (like me), then make sure your beard and any other facial hair is on point.
Fitness Gear
Staying fit is not only beneficial for your health but also boosts your confidence and energy levels. Here are some essentials that have helped me stay in shape and feel good.
26. Quality Running Shoes
Investing in a pair of quality running shoes can motivate you to stay active.
They’re crucial for protecting your feet during exercise and have been essential for my morning runs, which keep me energized and focused.
I recently replaced my old running shoes and my new shoes are a god-send for comfort and performance.
Mine are ASICS.
Lots of runners are getting the ASICS Men’s Gel-Nimbus.
27. Workout Clothes
Comfortable and functional workout clothes can make the difference between a mediocre workout and a great one.
I’ve found that wearing the right gear not only helps me perform better but also feel better about exercising.
Get your gear and get in the gym.
Being in shape is one of the best ways to feel good, live well, and instantly become more attractive on the dating scene.
28. Protein Powder
I keep a jug of protein powder in my house to make blended protein shakes after every workout.
It helps your body rest and recover.
Plus, you’ll grow muscles bigger and faster (in my experience).
Try Optimum Nutrition Gold Standard protein powder.
29. Water Bottle
Staying hydrated is important, especially if you’re active.
A reusable water bottle is eco-friendly and a constant reminder to drink water throughout the day.
I recently bought a YETI Rambler and it looks and works great.
I’ve seen increased energy and clearer skin when prioritizing hydration.
30. Workout Equipment
Get the right equipment for what you want – toned muscles, abs, bulk, etc.
As soon as you start working out, I think you’ll see a massive change in your dating success.
Try to do cardio and resistance training.
I suggest you try out these:
- Marcy Pro Smith Cage Workout Machine
- Bowflex SelectTech Adjustable Dumbbells
- ASSAULTFITNESS Assault AirBike
Speaking of getting big, here is video about the manly things every single guy should own:
Final Thoughts: Things Every Single Guy Needs
Equipped with these essentials, you’re now ready to take on the dating scene like a pro.
I also suggest you read dating books like How to Become a 3% Man by Corey Wayne and watch related advice on YouTube.
Just don’t forget to charm your way through our other enlightening articles for more savvy insights!
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