If you want your man to worship you like a goddess, then this article is for you.
What would make a man worship a woman?
A man will worship a woman who embodies feminity, peace, positivity, support, fitness, submission, pleasure, vulnerability, and availability. A man will also worship a woman who applies Obsession Phrases, the Polarity Sequence, and the Rapid Feelings Matrix.
In this article, I’m going to explain the 17 best ways to make a man worship you.
17 Things That Make a Man Worship a Woman
There are at least 17 specific tactics that women can use to make men worship them.
Some of these strategies will make sense right away, while others may seem counterintuitive (at least at first). Rest assured, I’ve tested these tips in the field over and over again.
If a woman wants to make a man worship her, she should do these 17 things.
1) Reverse Surrender
There’s nothing quite like feeling wanted and appreciated, is there?
And that’s what a lot of men are looking for—they want a woman to let them know she’s all theirs.
It’s that feeling of being needed and valued, of being the one she turns to when she needs something. When a woman shows her man that he’s the one she wants, it can make him feel like a million bucks.
It tells him that he’s the one she trusts, the one she relies on.
And that feeling is priceless. So if you want to make your man feel loved and appreciated, let him know that you’re all his.
That you need him and value him.
Because when a man feels needed and valued, he will worship you.
2) Be a Peace Magnet
Men are often drawn to women who make them feel at ease.
In a fast-paced, stressful world, it can be a relief to spend time with someone who is relaxed and serene.
It’s not just about the physical peace.
There’s also an emotional peace that comes from being with someone who makes you feel safe and secure.
As a result, they are very attractive to men who are looking for a break from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. If you want to attract the attention of a man, focus on being the kind of woman who brings him peace.
3) Fiercely Support His DGA
All throughout history, there has been one thing that all men have been obsessed with: women who support their dreams, goals, and ambitions.
I call it, supporting their DGA.
From Cleopatra to Helen of Troy, these women have always been in the background of great men, cheering them on and helping them to achieve their goals.
And while some may say that these women are simply pawns in the grand scheme of things, I believe that they play an essential role in the success of any man.
After all, what is a dream without someone to support it?
What is a goal without someone to encourage you to reach it? And what is ambition without someone to believe in you?
Men crave attention and appreciation as much as women but we mostly get our praise from work or side projects. Men are mission-driven.
If you align yourself with that mission (without losing your autonomy), he will worship you.
4) Treat Him Like a King
Ladies, if you’re looking for a man who will treat you like a queen, you need to start by treating him like a king.
That’s right—it’s not backward at all.
If you make your man feel like he’s the king of your world, he will return the favor tenfold.
Of course, you need to make sure he’s the kind of guy who is worth your investment.
Make sure he likes you for who you are and that he is truly invested in the relationship before you start showering him with royal treatment. But if he is, then go ahead and let him know just how much he means to you.
You may be surprised at how quickly he begins to treat you like his queen.
You treat him like a king by:
- Not questioning his every move
- Trusting him
- Buying him things
- Planning special dates for him
- Cooking his favorite meals
- Keeping his favorite snacks
- Supporting time with his friends
- Meeting his physical needs (and being very generous)
- Authentically praising him in front of his friends and family
5) Make Him a Priority (Without Pedestalizing Him)
Men want to feel like they’re one of the only things that matter to you, but they don’t want the responsibility of being your everything.
It’s a tough balance, but it’s one that men find very attractive in a woman.
Men want to feel wanted, but they don’t want to literally feel needed—as if your entire world would crumble without them. That’s too much pressure and it’s unhealthy.
They want to be the center of your world, but they don’t want the weight of the world on their shoulders.
When a woman can make a man feel like he’s the only thing that matters, without making him feel like he has to be everything, she’s got the perfect recipe for attracting a man.
Here’s a good video that talks about how to strike this balance:
6) Use Obsession Phrases
Most women have no idea that they can say certain words and phrases to make a man deeply fall in love with them.
It’s not something that’s taught in school.
But just like there are certain things you can do to turn a man on, there are also specific words and phrases that will trigger feelings of desire, commitment, and obsession in a man’s mind.
These so-called “Obsession Phrases” are designed to create a deep connection between you and a man, almost instantly.
I wrote an in-depth article about 40 Obsession Phrases over here (but finish reading this article first).
When used correctly, they can unlock a man’s heart and make him worship the ground you walk on.
7) Unleash His Inner Masculinity (With Your Inner Femininity)
There’s almost nothing more alluring to a man than a woman who exudes femininity.
It’s a quality that serves as a powerful man magnet, making them worship you and crave your affection.
The more feminine qualities you display, the more men will be drawn to you like a moth to a flame. It’s all about playing up your feminine wiles and knowing how to work them to your advantage.
Use your femininity as a benevolent weapon and you’ll have men eating out of the palm of your hand.
They’ll be falling over themselves to get with you and make you happy.
What would make a man worship a woman?
Consider exaggerating these feminine qualities:
A feminine “look” will also help.
Dress modestly, wear your hair long, and stay fit and lean (but a few curves don’t hurt). Speak with a soft and high-pitched voice.
These are all scientifically proven traits that drive men wild.
8) Apply This Psychological Color Hack
According to published research, the color of your clothes and your bedroom walls can have a significant impact on how attractive you appear to others and how often you engage in physical intimacy.
In one study, men were asked to rate the attractiveness of women photographed in a variety of colors.
The results showed that men found women wearing red to be significantly more attractive than those wearing any other color.
Similarly, another study found that people with purple bedrooms were more likely to report higher levels of physical intimacy.
If you’re looking to make a man worship you, it might be time to break out the red dress and purple paint.
9) Make Him Addicted To You By With This Simple Trick
If you want to hijack addiction science with a psychological trick that will make your guy associate you with his favorite things, here’s what you need to do.
First, play his favorite song when you’re together.
Then, feed him his favorite meal. Next, wear his favorite perfume or outfit. Finally, watch his favorite show or sport together.
By repeatedly doing all of these things, you’ll soon become associated with all of the things he loves most.
The best part is that you can do all of these things without saying a word.
And that’s a powerful way to keep him addicted to you.
10) Activate These Ancient Pleasure Centers
According to some experts, you can make a man worship you by activating his ancient pleasure centers.
These centers are thought to be hardwired into the male brain.
- Certain substances
- Hedonistic indulgence
In other words, if you can get a man’s mind and body moving in sync with a primal beat, fill his lungs with pure oxygen, or get him high on endorphins, you just might be able to turn him into your very own personal devotee.
What these centers have in common is that they trigger altered states of consciousness.
If you’re looking for a little more worship in your relationship, it might be worth exploring these age-old pleasure centers.
11) This Head Tilt Drives Men Insane
If you want a man to worship you, the key may be in the tilt of your head.
That’s right—by tilting your head down slightly, you can communicate vulnerability and submission in a way that is absolutely irresistible to men.
I know this body language trick may sound strange.
But research suggests that men instinctively find this downward head tilt more attractive.
So if you want your man to worship you, try tilting your head down (slightly) the next time you’re around him. You might be surprised by the results.
12) Use Dream Girl Alignment
If you want to make a man worship you, then you need to give him what he wants: a beautiful, symmetrical face.
And thanks to the wonders of modern cosmetics, it’s easier than ever to create the perfect look. A little makeup can go a long way towards making your features more symmetrical, and face contouring can help to create the illusion of high cheekbones and a small nose.
Even plastic surgery can give you a more youthful appearance.
I call this “Dream Girl Alignment” because you are refashioning yourself into his “dream girl.”
Every guy secretly desires to date, fall in love, and marry their dream girl.
13) Train Him To Worship You with Psychological Conditioning
You can make a man worship you by training him with psychological conditioning.
Anytime he experiences a massive pleasure, release, or ecstasy (wink wink nudge nudge), say a specific word or phrase and touch him somewhere unusual like his elbow.
If you repeat this enough (and at the peak of his pleasure), he will begin to associate you, your work, and your elbow touch with massive pleasure.
This is a powerful driver of his behavior because human beings move toward pleasure and away from pain.
Anytime he does something you like (aka, worships you), reward him with a wave of pleasure.
Don’t point any of this out to him.
Just do it—over and over again. It won’t take long for him to connect worshiping you with incredible personal pleasure.
14) The Advanced Polarity Sequence
Women have been using this psychological trick for centuries to keep their men hooked on them.
And now, science has finally confirmed what we’ve known all along: that this trick can hijack a man’s brain and make him addicted to us.
So what is this secret weapon?
It’s called “strategic withdraw.” When we withdraw our attention, love, and support from a man, he experiences the same effects as someone going through drug withdrawal.
He feels anxious, depressed, and even physically ill.
But here’s the kicker: the more we withdraw, the more addicted he becomes. In other words, by using this psychological trick, we can turn even the most casual relationship into a full-blown addiction.
The key to this high-risk, high-reward tactic is variation.
You don’t want to be 100% withdrawn all the time. You will lose a guy quickly by being completely withdrawn.
Instead, you want to move back and forth between love bombing and withdrawal.
It’s this topsy-turvy, roller-coaster ride of emotions that intensifies his addition to you and your affection.
15) Make Him Feel Like a Hero
You can make a man worship you by making him feel like a hero.
Men possess a deep, internal desire to be your hero and protector. If you make him feel like he’s living up to that ideal, he will worship you.
He will want to do everything he can to make sure that you are happy and safe.
Let him open the door for you. Let him carry your heavy bags.
And most importantly, let him know that you appreciate everything he does for you. When he feels like your knight in shining armor, he will worship you with every fiber of his being.
16) Tap Into This Scientific Temperature Trick
When we’re feeling lonely, many of us unconsciously take a long, hot shower.
It feels good, and for a moment we forget our troubles.
According to research, we substitute emotional connection (or warmth) with physical feelings of warmth (hot temperatures).
What if there were a way to use this research to our advantage?
By understanding how loneliness affects us on a physiological level, you can learn to exploit it and make the man in your life worship you.
The trick is to subtly foster feelings of warmth and connection when he is with you.
You can do this by warming up your house, using warming blankets, taking hot showers together, and drinking hot beverages.
Men equate hot temperatures with emotional warmth, so if you can create an environment that is physically comfortable, you will also be creating an environment that is emotionally comforting.
Just don’t make your place overly hot (again, it’s about striking a delicate balance).
17) Rapid Feelings Matrix
To make a man worship you, put him through the Rapid Feelings Matrix.
One way to do this is to schedule dates where you move between three different locations. This will subconsciously make it feel like three separate dates, and if you go on three dates per month regularly, it will seem like nine dates.
This illusion of time will foster greater familiarity and trick his head and heart into thinking you’ve been dating for longer.
The psychological impact is that his feelings for you accelerate.
And the more he loves you, the more he will worship you.
What Would Make a Man Not Worship You? (9 Things to Avoid)
If you do want to ensure that a man does not worship you, do the opposite of everything in this article.
I won’t go through the entire list but here is what to do to lose a guy:
- Play hard to get 100% of the time
- Be more masculine than him
- Don’t take care of yourself
- Don’t support him or his dreams
- Talk down to him
- Argue with him
- Cause a lot of drama
- Be needy and clingy
- Yell and get loud
The more of these things that you do, the less likely a man will worship you.
Do You Really Want a Man to Worship You? (Consider This First)
Most women want to be cherished and loved. You want a partner who will be there for you, support you, and make you feel special.
However, there is a big difference between being loved and being worshiped.
When a man worships you, he becomes overly dependent on you and loses his sense of self. He may start to get needy, jealous, and desperate.
This can be incredibly suffocating, and it’s not healthy for either of you.
You may enjoy his attention at first but you’ll probably get over it very fast. That’s why it’s better to have an independent, strong man who can cherish and love you without losing himself in the process.
Final Thoughts: What Would Make a Man Worship a Woman?
The most important factors that make a man worship a woman are that she is physically fit, behaviorally feminine, and relationally friendly.
By friendly, I mean zero drama, easy to please, and non-confrontational.
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